Q&A Forum - February 2008 (The best of Elise)

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As you see, there are reasons and laws of Nature for extramarital sex or cuckoldry. Cuckoldry refers to extramarital sex, and points out to the risk of extramarital pregnancy but does not imply anything about husband’s knowledge or consent. Most extramarital sex occurs without the husband’s knowledge, that is, in most cases, the wife cheats on her husband. Should we censure women that cheat on their husbands? If they want, they should.

I see this strategy that has evolved along centuries, as a part of our domination and sexual freedom. Do we have to be careful? Yes, many times it is better that the husband ignores his wife’s sexual escapades. If he doesn’t know, he will not suffer! In short, cheating is common, Nature told us the lesson about how to get advantage of it a long time ago, and we must see it as one of the ways of our domination within our marriages, and get what we want from life. We can have loving relationships despite of that, mainly when he doesn’t know about!

Another aspect of extramarital sex is the situation that arises when he finds out. Some cases can end in divorce, but some lead to a new type of relationship in which he simply has to accept his wife sexual freedom. There are more husbands in this situation than we imagine. This is a challenge for the wife, but if she knows how to rule a marriage, she will surely succeed.