Q&A Forum - February 2008 (The best of Elise)

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There are many thought patterns that affect our emotions and how we view ourselves. You have a societal pattern going back thousands of years which teaches that men are superior and should be in charge. You have many popular religious doctrines that teach that God is male and women should submit to men in order to please God. You have false masculinity that men pass down to boys which says that men must be strong, tough, aggressive, and show no emotion. All of these thought patterns have gone into the male psyche and have taken a firm hold.

At the same time, you have the submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature of man breaking forth via the backdoor. The patriarchal mindset stands guard at the door of the male mind, being a defensive mechanism to cast out any thought process that should try to challenge the traditional model of the masculinity of men. So the submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature of man (planted by Nature) breaks forth via the male’s sexuality. It is the sexual power of the female that usually captures the male’s attention and places him under the spell and control of the female. Fetishes恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing are often the expressions of the male submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. Fantasies are the product of the male submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature where man can worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service the female and submit to the female within the recesses of his mind, without having to sacrifice his traditional masculinity or do battle with the patriarchal mindset which guards the door to his mind.