Q&A Forum - February 2010 (The best of Elise)

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Men can be grumpy for other reasons and blame it on the orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial process. They don’t call them “grumpy old men” because they are wearing chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm devices. As men age, they can get grumpy because they are not as accustomed to the aches and pains and bodily changes of aging, whereas women have had to deal with pain and bodily changes every month of their adult life. Plus, women have an overall better disposition. Men will disagree with me but if you talk to hormone specialists, they will tell you that the “men get grumpy when they don’t get enough sex” is an old wives tale (or should I say old husband’s tale). Men can get grumpy from stress and sex can be a stress reliever but so can other forms of D&S that don’t necessarily require an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax.

You have to find that proper balance and also remember that a man needs to be trained and brought to long-term denial in stages so his body can adjust. Once he gets accustomed to the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device and once he gets beyond the initial emotional and sexual adjustments, he should have little trouble going a week or two or longer between releases. Regardless, never forget that you are in charge and you set the conditions. Do what works best for your marriage and your sex life. Take care!