Q&A Forum - February 2011 (Best of Elise)

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At the risk of sounding paranoid, I must also ask if you think that this expanding loop of female dominance and male submission has any potential for extremism. History and current events in some parts of the world have shown absolute patriarchal dominance has resulted in terrible oppression of females. How will the reverse be avoided if the female gender continues to grow its dominance and power unchecked over the male? I read about some of the espoused practices of FemDom女性支配 — female domination… total financial control comes to mind. We have more than enough historical data to show that those in dependent financial positions in their marriages suffer if they have to leave the marriage, or worse, endure staying in the marriage because they do not have the financial independence to leave.

Thank you for your insight.

A. First, let me congratulate you for making your wife’s happiness the main focus in your life. While some men strive to accumulate money or to improve their golf scores, you are pursuing a goal that will enrich both your wife’s life and your life. Money and personal achievements are temporary at best and can never satisfy the soul. But a man who dedicates himself to serving women, and especially his wife, will find that internal satisfaction that eludes most men. There is a spiritual law at play and a man cannot give in a sacrificial manner without also receiving.