Q&A Forum - February 2016

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Q. Dear Elise, I am currently reading your book ("Female Domination") and am finding it really interesting.

I think I need your advice with respect to developing my relationship. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 years. He has always been very easy going, and willing to do things to please me.

He enjoys me taking control in the bedroom, and has never been overly dominant. I would like him to be more submissive顺从 — willing to obey and attentive towards me outside of the bedroom. I am not sure how to encourage this. I don't want to be inconsistent and confuse him.

For example, I need advice on how to handle his friends. We are friends with a number of couples where the male is in control of the relationship. I find this annoying sometimes when spending time with them, as the males act slightly dominant towards me, and also my boyfriend tends to start acting more dominant towards me when we have been spending time with them. I want to discourage this behavior, so he knows how to act appropriately towards me at all times, regardless of the company.

I hope I have provided enough information for you to advise me on how to proceed with him. I was uncertain what would be relevant. If you would like me to provide any further information, please advise me. Thanks and best regards.