Q&A Forum - February 2016

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You have written extensively about how orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial is a powerful tool in a man's submission. In Michelle's words, "Like so many other submissive顺从 — willing to obey males, as he gets horny, the fantasies get crueler and more perverse." In this case, however, I think there is more at play than just that. I could find myself falling into a similar situation because I understand her husband's guilt at enjoying this, but it is how Michele participates that changes the dynamic. As she also says, "It is much more than just forced feminization." It is, but I don't think it is because of him, I think it is because of her. She credits her own ability to experiment with her husband in discovering how she wanted to train him, and I agree, but it seems like she might understand his needs more than she understands her own. Some women are just sadists, but I don't think that applies to Michelle.

My question to you is, do you have an opinion about what motivates a woman like Michelle? Am I wrong about her, and she really is a sadist, just with a safe setting and willing participant to experiment? I get the feeling there is more to it, and I think that them seemingly being in a loving and in a healthy relationship is evidence of that.