Q&A Forum - February 2016

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That level of intimacy is available to any couple that is willing to open up and explore the power of FemDom女性支配 — female domination. It doesn’t have to involve the intensity of what Michelle and her husband choose to practice in the bedroom (or attic). In your situation, you might prefer the softer, more feminine play but once the exploration commences and once you surrender your inhibitions over to your female partner, you just never know what you will discover. D&S is like a dance but you must allow your partner to lead and that is not always easy for some men as they want to orchestrate the “scene" to fit their fantasies and desires. But what about the woman’s fantasies and desires? Are you willing to surrender to the place where she gets to orchestrate the play? Are you willing to trust her with that much power?

Gary allows Michelle to have her way with him because he trusts her. What they do takes an awful lot of trust, yet trust is what makes such deep intimacy possible. You can't have one without the other. Thank you for the feedback about "Wanda".

Q. Hi Elise. Thank you for your site, especially the Q&A sections. I am new to this: About 3 months ago, I began dating a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man who has over 8 years experience with BDSM. While I am not very confident or comfortable in a dominant role, I'm willing to slowly try things and see where my comfort level is on various activities.