Q&A Forum - February 2017

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He is not alone. Many men make this same mistake and what they risk is driving their wife out of FemDom女性支配 — female domination with their demands for domination. A submissive顺从 — willing to obey needs to concentrate on serving his wife and seducing her dominance with his submission. The best way for a man to stir those dominant juices in a woman is by submitting to her in a humble fashion. The worst thing a man can do is to nag a woman to be dominant.

What you need to do is to relax and don't allow him to pressure you. Find what you enjoy about being a dominant woman and incorporate it into your relationship with him. Discover what his D&S interests are and explore his submission with him but use your knowledge as a tool to drive him deeper into submission to you. This lifestyle is about your needs being met by him. It is not about him pressuring you to be what he wants. Let him know this and don't be afraid to tell him that if he tries to control you, than you will not dominate him inside of the bedroom. Tell him that if he wants to be dominated inside of the bedroom, than he better also obey you outside of the bedroom.

Q. As many of your other writers, I was introduced to the idea of female domination by my significant other. We came across your website surfing the web together, and were both excited by many of the things we read here. I sense much truth in what you say, and I believe we are ready to explore this lifestyle further.