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In reality, S&M started out as an underground group of purely dominant women and submissive顺从 — willing to obey men based on the life of Sacher-Masoch. Over the years S&M has changed to become pan-sexual where either a male or a female could be dominant and either a male or a female could be submissive顺从 — willing to obey. But S&M originally stood for a sadistic woman and a masochistic male based primarily on Sacher-Masoch's book "Venus in Furs".

Q. Dear Elise, I really like your website and all the good ideas you present. I am a single woman and would like to begin a Dominant/sub顺从者 — a submissive person relationship. Do you think I would be better off putting out a BDSM personal ad or employing some other means? Also, what do you think should be the very first techniques I should employ whilst getting to know a potential partner? Finally, do you have any advice on dominating several submissives顺从 — willing to obey at the same time?

A.You have the extreme advantage of being a dominant female so it will not be too difficult to find a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. Submissive顺从 — willing to obey men who are actively searching for a dominant woman to serve far out number the dominant women who are actively seeking a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. The odds are greatly in your favor.