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However, if you want him to submit to you behind closed doors, then you need to explore his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature and you need to dominate him. A D&S relationship is not a 50/50 relationship. If that is what you want, then this lifestyle is not for you. A 50/50 relationship is a mirage. It sounds great but it does not exist in reality. There has to be a dominant partner. It either will be him or it will be you. If you are discovering how much you love dominating him and how it has improved your sex life and how it has improved the dynamics of your marriage, then for heaven's sake, enjoy it. If it makes him a wimp in your eyes, then so what? What is wrong with a wimp if his submission makes him happy and more importantly, if it makes you happy?

I agree that no woman wants a doormat. Every woman wants a man that she can connect with on an intellectual level and every woman wants a man that she can share life with as her friend. I have written about this in great detail on my site. But a man can fulfill this social need and still be in total submission to you. Women for centuries have fulfilled the social need within men and yet, were expected to be in submission to them at the same time. So why is it that some women have such a problem with accepting this long overdue and much needed role reversal?