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Q. Dear Ms Sutton, thank you for a very stimulating, empowering and avant-garde site. You have mentioned that you take questions, and I would be obliged if you could perhaps advise on the following:- My boyfriend has agreed in full to the concepts of your site and while truly desiring to serve and please is also full of contradictions. He has a very confidant, domineering and potent personality in "outside" life and I often find him trying to "dominate" me from his submissive顺从 — willing to obey stance. Subtly and surreptitiously trying "control" what happens to him and how he thinks I should behave. Although I have discussed this at length with him, is there any sure-fire way to get him out of this mode of thinking to come full-circle and accept complete submission? If you have had any experience that you can relate with other males that have these tendencies, I would be grateful to hear them.

A. If he approached you about this lifestyle, then you need to remind him of that. Tell him that you want to go all the way with this lifestyle and that means that he must accept your total authority. He may be aggressive outside the home but around the house he must surrender his will over to you. This should provide him with a wonderful stress reliever as he surrenders to you.