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A. What you are suggesting is practiced by some dominant wives but we must keep health and safety at the forefront here. This woman uses a condom to protect herself and her husband. She is ninety percent sure that her lover is clean and healthy but unless you are 100 percent positive, clean-up duty is not always a good idea. I recommend that the wife douches and cleans herself up before having hubby perform cleanup duty.

This may not be as erotic to the wife but safety is more important. You could use some imagination and not let your hubby know that you douched and cleaned yourself up before making him do his cleanup duty. That way it is still humiliating to the husband but safe at the same time. Creativity and your attitude will do more (as far as making it a humiliating act for your hubby) then the actual clean-up duty.

Q. Elise, my husband and I have embraced the Female Domination lifestyle and we progressed a little. However, I am still a little unsure as how to proceed. My husband is getting rather hesitant because I know I am not controlling him as I need to. He has begun to neglect me, not physically but in the little things like trimming my pussy阴部 — the vulva hair and painting my toes. I have to ask him to do things that previously he would do simply out of devotion and servitude. When I punish him, I am rather half hearted and it doesn't do anything to make matters better. Help.