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3) If he whines or complains when I go out (Where am I going? Who am I meeting? Where were you?), I can deny him longer.

Elise, we both agree this is very exciting. He told me he enjoys the fact that I'm honest with him. It also turns him on that I want to find someone better than him. When I told him I'd planned on cheating on him and lightly giggled, I could tell he was hurt. But he said he loved it and I found I loved relishing in his humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose! I often wear boots (his favorite) and smoke (another favorite fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing of his) and he said it drives him insane when I tell him I am going out somewhere and he can't ask.

Elise, this is so much fun for me and spicy. I've never felt sexier or stronger. I told him no backing out of the agreement or I'll be disappointed. When I said that, he said he felt powerless, tied down minus ropes around him. What is your opinion of this?

A. Being tied down with no ropes is mental domination. He is experiencing sub顺从者 — a submissive person space. He is feeling your dominant power radiating from you and he cannot resist it. He loves losing control to you and he loves seeing you so sexual and so dominant. He is sensing your seriousness about cuckolding him and this is making him weak. You are expressing your female liberation after all these years of marriage and this exalts you to the Dominant position in your marriage. This is stirring his submission and taking him to sub顺从者 — a submissive person space. That is why he is having the being tied down with no ropes sensation.