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27 years ago when we first met, I told her of my cross gender feelings. At the time, because I was attracted to women, I thought I was a transvestite. She said it didn't matter, because she loved me so much. However, over the next 14 years or so, little happened around the house. We had worked up to a little Dom play and french maid女仆 — a woman servant play, but she wasn't really into it herself.

About ten years ago, after being severally depressed and suicidal, I began therapy. I discovered that in fact I was a lesbian transsexual woman. I began my transition and because I loved my family so much put a great deal of effort into saving the marriage. We began couples counseling and today, I am a postoperative transwoman and still with my loving wife.

In all our counseling we never approached my submissive顺从 — willing to obey needs. I was fearful that she would think my forced feminization fantasies, were really the root of my cross gender transition. I am totally happy with my everyday life and wouldn't change a thing. I am more productive and our love has grown tremendously.