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Q. Hello I would like to start off by thanking you for your site it has been so wonderful and very helpful just retaining the information. I am fairly new to this lifestyle, and I am a bit uncomfortable with proceeding with some of the exercises. For example fearing when I spank him I will hurt him, or spank too hard, or when I grab his balls I will torture him. Did you ever fear any of this when you first starting into this lifestyle?

I think for me my Dominating characteristics are more mental and they have not been so much sexual. I have read a lot of literature but it's the hands on experience I do not have much of. Can you recommend anything that I can do or information that I can read to ease my issues or bring me more comfort? I have a submissive顺从 — willing to obey that I have met and he is wonderful. We have not done a lot of sessions, as like I said I am new and I fear to some degree that with his prior experience he will become bored. Thank you in advance for all your help.