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The biggest problem I am having with all this is I am not able to achieve what you refer to as subspace. It is not due to the lack of experience or skill from my wife. She is a powerful and domineering woman and I am sure most submissive顺从 — willing to obey men would easily drift off to subspace in her presence. The problem is with me. I do not think I am of the genetic make-up or personality who can achieve that euphoric state of submission that is called subspace. Without subspace, being disciplined, dominated and controlled by a woman is not enjoyable but is restrictive and confining. It is like the air of freedom is being sucked from my body and I do not like that experience.

My questions for you are as follows. In your professional opinion, what exactly is subspace? Are all men capable of achieving subspace or do you have to be of a certain nature and personality? If a man cannot achieve subspace, do you still recommend this lifestyle for his marriage?