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Subspace can last a few hours or it can last for weeks at a time. It depends on the trigger and the depth of that trigger. That is why I tell women to play (have a D&S scene) with their submissive顺从 — willing to obey man at least once a week. The male psyche is like an onion and it needs to be peeled back layer by layer. That is what I mean when I talk about taking a man to a deeper level in his submission. The deeper you go, the more intense the scene and the more potent the trigger. Once you discover these triggers, they can be touched and stimulated with the expected results. If is it a negative trigger (childhood hurts, abuse, etc), a woman can bring healing to it through nurturing and love. The trigger remains and the woman can use it to take her submissive顺从 — willing to obey to subspace, thus she can turn the negative into a positive. If it is a positive trigger or a trigger with an unknown origin or quality, she can use it to her advantage to further her control and power over her submissive顺从 — willing to obey.

In my opinion, all men are capable of achieving subspace if they will let go and if they will surrender to a dominant woman. It need only be a short and temporary surrender if it is a man having a scene with a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman or a Professional Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. A man can surrender, enter subspace, and worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service a woman whom he does not have a relationship with. The subspace will last for the session and perhaps hours after the session, but then he returns to his normal life.