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My advice to you is to do the same. You seem to have it backwards as you said that you feel he needs to pay for his insubordination before he gets the benefit of a submissive顺从 — willing to obey sexual release. I would not give him any kind of sexual release but you need to get him into a submissive顺从 — willing to obey state and reconcile the argument before you punish him for his transgression.

As far as dealing with a rebellious husband in a public setting goes, that is difficult. It would be best to ignore it until you get him home. I do have certain words that I use in a public setting to dominate my husband so that only we know what they mean. We have a little code I developed so we can play D&S games out in public and also so I can put him in his place without making a scene. I will give you a brief example of our code.

A simple phrase like "Honey, remind me to water the flowers when we get home" might mean to us "Honey, I do not like your behavior so I am going to whip you when we get home". Or "Honey, I have a sweet tooth. Maybe we can stop for donuts on our way home" might mean to us "Honey, I have a hunger to dominate you. Lets cut this short so we can get home".

Feel free to develop some short phrases that no one outside of you and your husband would know what they mean and if he acts up or if you are feeling naughty in a public setting, use your code and watch his excitement and submission grow (as well as a bulge in his pants).