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Unfortunately, many women just see the leather outfits, the whips, and the techniques that we use to get our men into that magical state of deep submission, and they think that our lifestyle is "strange" or "bizarre". If they would only look past the tools that we use and the techniques that we utilize, and if they would instead focus on the results that they bring, then I believe that most women would openly embrace this lifestyle. Women are searching for the kind of intimacy and the kind of relationship that you and your husband share. If they would only understand that most men need to be dominated, disciplined, and controlled by a woman, in order to be at peace within themselves, then I am convinced the majority of women would assume their proper place, which is to be the dominant wife and the dominant woman.

Q. Elise, there are so many different "techniques" that women do to their men to get them to submit to them. I was wondering, where did all of these different techniques originate from? Some of these techniques seem a bit "extreme". Who came up with these techniques?