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A. Any organization that encourages men to keep their promises to their wives is OK in my book. Men are natural promise breakers. The only problem that I have with Promise Keepers or any men's organizations, is when wives trust an organization to straighten their men out, instead of taking the bull by the horns (or should I say male by the balls) themselves. A wife should demand a promise keeper and she can ensure that her husband is one, by disciplining him and properly training him herself. It is her responsibility to demand and to expect excellence from her man, not an all male organizations.

I think Promise Keepers is great in that it challenges men to live moral lives. I disagree with them when they tell men that they must take their proper place in their marriage as the head. I want a promise keeper for a husband, but I am the head of my marriage and as the head I guarantee that my man will be a promise keeper by keeping him on a short leash牵引绳 — a lead clipped to a collar and disciplining him severely when he breaks any promises. It is the woman's responsibility to train her husband. Don't leave it to someone else or it will be only temporary. Organizations and movements come and go, but a good marriage is eternal. It's up to you to ensure that you have a good marriage.