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To answer your other question, No, there is no correlation between lack of commitment and submissive顺从 — willing to obey men. Most submissive顺从 — willing to obey men desire to have a loving relationship with a dominant woman. As a matter of fact, they desire to surrender control of their lives over to a woman and this takes a lot of trust. There is an intense bonding between a submissive顺从 — willing to obey and his Dom that transcends a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship. A submissive顺从 — willing to obey man actually becomes dependent on the Dominant woman as he surrenders his ego and his will over to her.

This takes even more commitment than a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey male may enjoy the feeling of being humiliated and desire to be broken by the dominant female but only if his brokenness leads to the peaceful feeling of surrender. The dominant woman breaks the male down but than she loves and nurtures him once he surrenders to her will. Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose is a tool the woman uses to transport the male into "sub顺从者 — a submissive person space", a place of peace and helplessness that he desires. I call this place the "submissive顺从 — willing to obey zone". Most men are looking for a D&S experience that will transport them to this zone. A man must trust the woman as he enters into "sub顺从者 — a submissive person space". There he is most vulnerable. Only in a relationship that is built upon trust and love can these D&S experiences enjoy such intensity and fulfillment.