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Q. Thirty seven years ago, I met & married a wonderful Girl. She was very sexually aggressive & liberal & that excited me. She was a unique blend. Very submissive顺从 — willing to obey in some ways & somewhat dominant in others. In our early years we played around a little with S & M. After about 4 years, she returned to the Christian faith of Her childhood & started praying me in to The Kingdom. I met Jesus as my Lord & Savior less than a year after & we concentrated on the Christian life. Through the Years the subject of S & M often came up and in 1992 events led us to a local group. She excelled in being a submissive顺从 — willing to obey rather than a dominant. One of the ladies in the group dominated her while my wife dominated me. I was in slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience heaven.

However my Wife had a close female friend who was very deeply into the Christian lifestyle. As time went on She persuaded my wife that we were in an immoral lifestyle & would not go to heaven. One night my wife woke me up to tell me that She would have no more involvement in the S&M lifestyle. As time went on, She was also convinced by Her friend that oral sex was wrong & accepted a very conservative view of Sexuality. She offered that I could continue S&M activities as long as I did not tell Her about them. Since that time I have been involved on a limited basis. The desires of S&M & The belief in Female Supremacy has always been there. Because of my Female Supremacy views I feel our marriage has worked & we are deeply committed & in love with each other.