Q&A Forum - January 2009 (best of Elise)

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Over time, you will come to understand why he needs this. He may not be able to communicate it to you at this time, but I can say that it is more than likely rooted in his need for loving female authority. Don’t think of it in terms of administering pain but rather discipline, and discipline is a good thing. It is a healthy experience for a man as it can be a cleansing experience and a spiritual experience. During these discipline sessions challenge him to let go, challenge him to surrender control over to you. For when he lets go of himself and surrenders to you, that is when he will enter subspace. And subspace is a place where he will find contentment and such experiences will assist him as he allows you to run the relationship. Take care.

Q. Ms Sutton, I have just visited Your web-site to further my journey into the philosophy of "Female Supremacy". while I was reading though the pages there, I came to the "Questions and Answers Forum". There I encountered a letter addressed to you by a Christian man who feels (and has been counseled) that "Female Domination" is a sinful addiction. He stated that he would no longer be visiting your web-site.