Q&A Forum - January 2009 (best of Elise)

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“From my years of counseling and interviewing submissive顺从 — willing to obey men, it has been rather obvious that the male desire to be in submission to the female gender has very little to do with temperament. There are submissive顺从 — willing to obey men who are introverted, shy and passive and there are submissive顺从 — willing to obey men who are aggressive, outgoing and extroverts. The male desire to submit to the female cannot be over analyzed. Some have tried to explain the popularity of the professional Dominant woman (a.k.a. the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman) as being a way for the aggressive businessman to obtain balance in his life. It has been said by some who have examined the phenomenon of the D&S lifestyle that D&S attracts men of power and of a “Type A” personality because FemDom女性支配 — female domination gives these alpha male types a chance to be on the receiving end of aggression and power instead of being on the giving end. In other words, Female Domination gives the macho male an avenue to find balance.

Then there are those who have claimed that FemDom女性支配 — female domination attracts men who have a low self-image because they harbor a secret desire to be abused. Some in the field of Psychology believe that the Melancholy is most likely to develop masochistic desires. These two theories contradict each other. If FemDom女性支配 — female domination primarily attracts shy and insecure males, then why do so many aggressive and extrovert males also desire to be dominated by a woman?”