Q&A Forum - January 2011 (Best of Elise)

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Q. Dear Elise Sutton: My wife and I have been married for 5 years and we have two beautiful little boys. Most people would consider us to be a very normal family. She is a SAHM, and I am the Chief Medical Officer at a prominent corporation.

My wife has recently expressed interest in having a Female Domination relationship. I wasn't exactly sure what she was referring to, but she showed me your website and a couple other sites that pertain to Female Domination. She told me she gained interest in the lifestyle after she read your book and found out how many people are actually practicing this lifestyle. I was a bit taken back by the idea, and told her I would think about it.

It has been a few months since I told her I would think about it, and she keeps asking me about it. I have thought about it, and a part of me just wants to melt to her feet and tell her how much I would love to submit to her, but the other part of me resists the idea. I don't understand why I'm feeling this way. Sometimes I tell myself that I should admit to her that I love the idea of having a Female Domination relationship, but something keeps me from doing it.