Q&A Forum - January 2012 (The best of Elise)

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I almost felt guilty for feeling that women were superior but what I observed was that girls were way ahead of boys. We were smarter, worked harder and got the top grades in school. As I grew older and developed more, I also learned very quickly about the sexual power I have over men. Still, in public, I would declare equality, but in private, and especially in conversations with my g/f's, there was never any doubt that we were superior to the guys. Now I see a new generation of young women who don't even try to pretend. They say it and do it.

Now in my early thirties, I am dating a man I hope to marry. Our conversations about this topic have mostly been about how great it is that women and men now have the same opportunities. But there have been some incidents recently that caused some embarrassment about the issue.

One day after work, I began commenting on my workplace and the changes taking place. I told him how the women were doing so well at work, how the women were taking over the top positions and how the women were smart, in charge, and attractive. I then noticed he had a full erection as I was telling him this. I know him, and he was clearly aroused. But he was also embarrassed. I was startled, but reading your site helps to explain a little.