Q&A Forum - January 2012 (The best of Elise)

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Q. Dear Ms. Sutton, I discovered Your website a few months ago and purchased Your book for my Queen. Although we are not young, we are both new and eager to explore the Female/male relationship.

I notice a lot of the Women on Your website not only practice long term male chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm, but also don't allow intercourse. We haven't yet discussed the use of dildos假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis in lieu of conventional intercourse, but I would like to offer this as an alternative in the event She wants to experience both penetration and keeping me confined at the same time.

I wanted Your opinion on whether You view the use of a dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis as further submission of the male to the woman?

A. I love it when my husband uses a dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis on me while he is denied the right to enter me. There are many components to this sexual activity. First, it reminds him that sex is for the woman’s pleasure, as I am being ravished and he is being denied.

Second, it is a form of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose as my dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis is much bigger than his penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and I can see the embarrassment on his face as he takes the large dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis in his hand and uses it on me. He is amazed that I can take all of it and it definitely humiliates him, which excites him and takes him to subspace.