Q&A Forum - January 2012 (The best of Elise)

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To quote form the Bible, “You are fearfully and wonderfully made”. You are who you are, so don’t question it but instead embrace it. You are a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male and you desire to be dominated by your wife. You can no more change your race, sex, or the natural color of your eyes than you can change the fact that you were created as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. No matter how hard you try to run from who you are, you will always come back for more. In fact, the harder you try to resist these desires, the stronger these desires will become. It is futile and it is folly to try to be what you are not. Contentment will come when you surrender and accept who you are.

You have so much to be grateful for. You have a wonderful woman whom you can serve. She wants to dominate you and she is so much wiser than you. She knows who she is and she knows who you are. She is secure within herself. You are insecure because you are trying to conform to what societal traditions say you must be. You don’t want to resist her. You love being under the control of a loving woman. So stop trying to intellectualize what comes natural. Be happy and grateful for who you are and what you have. Take care.