Q&A Forum - January 2012 (The best of Elise)

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The reason I brought up the accidental pregnancy issue was because this man’s wife was of the opinion that I agreed with her based on a reply to a former Q&A entry many months ago. That particular entry had to do with a man who was upset because his wife accidentally became pregnant from her affair with another man. In that case, I tried to encourage that husband by reminding him that a father is not the one who plants the seed but rather the one who assists the woman in the child rearing. I was encouraging this husband by explaining to him that what appeared as a crisis in his life could be turned into an unbelievable blessing if he were to renew his mind to the fact that he would be this child’s father, regardless of who planted the seed.

An accidental pregnancy is far different than a woman openly trying to have a child with another man at the exclusion of her husband. It is always best for a child to be conceived between the wife and the husband. It is best socially, legally, economically and emotionally for all parties involved.

Q. Dear Miss Sutton, my question is about porn. When my wife is at work or with her friends, I watch porn quite a lot. I'm afraid to tell her. I know she's not against porn when she uses it for the purpose to tease me but when I use it on my own, it's out of the question.