Q&A Forum - January 2012 (The best of Elise)

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If you rent Adult DVD’s, tell her and give her your video card. If you frequent Adult bookstores, tell her that you need her to place you on a short leash牵引绳 — a lead clipped to a collar by requiring you to get her approval before you make any stops on your way home from work. In other words, you need to confess to her that you need for her to take charge of your life because you have this addiction. Just make sure that you tell her that you want to channel your sexual desires into serving her both inside and outside the bedroom. Give her plenty of praise, reaffirm to her how beautiful you find her and how you desire to serve her. This should open the door for the two of you to have a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage. Therefore, your porno problem could lead to a more meaningful relationship with your wife if you come clean with her.

Men are visually oriented so men are easily addicted to porn. That is how men are wired. Again, there is nothing wrong with the viewing of adult oriented material as long as you are using the material to fuel your sexual passion for the purpose of romancing your wife. But she needs to be included, not excluded. She needs to know about your habits. If porn begins to become a replacement for your sex life with your wife, then it is wrong and the situation needs corrected. Men can easily become addicted and that is why a man’s sex life and a man’s time must be under the control of his wife. She will ensure that you utilize your time wisely. Best wishes.