Q&A Forum - January 2013 (Best of Elise, 'Wanda' edition)

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Be careful not to get the cart before the horse. Your wife has shown she is open-minded by agreeing to wear the boots and using the crop a little on you in the bedroom. The challenge for you is not to become over anxious. I realize this can be difficult but patience is the name of the game when introducing this lifestyle to a beginner. That is why your focus needs to be on your wife and on you meeting her needs. As she becomes more open and expresses a willingness to learn more about female domination, then you can give her my book. But seeing how she reacted negatively to “The Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner Manual” you need to proceed with caution lest you hinder her growth as a dominant woman.

Again, focus on your submissive顺从 — willing to obey attitude and work on those things that you can control. I do wish you all the best.