Q&A Forum - January 2014

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A woman can exploit a man within a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship. How about the woman who marries a man because of his career or his financial status? Is that not ‘the utilization of another person for selfish purposes’? Or what about the woman who uses sex (withholding it or giving it) to manipulate her husband in order to get her way? It happens all the time in so-called vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationships.

And what is “unkindly”? If a man craves discipline and desires corporal punishment but his wife refuses to meet his emotional need in this area, is she not acting unkindly and is she not being selfish? And on the flip side, if a woman, within a so-called vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship, nags her husband constantly is she not being unkind?

Which is better, a woman nagging her husband to do chores around the house, arguing with him and manipulating him, or the woman who incorporates FemDom女性支配 — female domination practices which will motivate her husband to perform those very same tasks? The former is full of turmoil and conflict but the latter is a win/win situation that promotes harmony. So which is exploitation? Which is ill-treatment?

Naturally, a woman can incorporate FemDom女性支配 — female domination practices and have malice in her heart. And naturally, a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship can be based on love and devotion. But the reverse can also be true. A person can have wrongful motivation no matter what the lifestyle.