Q&A Forum - January 2015

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Now if they were to find out on their own and if they were to question you about it, then of course you should share with them how happy you are in a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage and how it fulfills you as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. Most parents just want their children to be happy. So it is Ok to allow your wife to be in charge of you in public in that she makes the decisions and you should honor your wife by being willing to serve her in domestic ways in front of family and friends (i.e. getting her a drink, waiting on her, showing her affection, obeying what she says in a respectful manner that does not draw attention to yourself, etc) but do not engage in humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play or display any D&S overtones in front of family, especially your parents.

Calling each other pet names is fine and you can even come up with special names that have a hidden FemDom女性支配 — female domination meaning to you but will not offend your family. In other words, don’t call your wife Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner and she should not call you slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience or submissive顺从 — willing to obey or obedient hubby. That would more than likely offend your parents and again, they deserve to be treated with respect because of the sacrifices they made on your behalf when you were under their care. Best wishes.

Q. Dear Elise, I happened upon your site while looking for help on the Internet and wondered if you could offer me some advice on what I should do.