Q&A Forum - January 2015

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You feel pressure to be this creative and adventuresome woman and pressure stifles creativity. Creativity will come when you are relaxed and having fun. You will want to be adventuresome when you are relaxed and having fun. So let’s begin to look at the bedroom as your time to be relaxed and to have fun. What do you enjoy? Do you like to get massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it? Do you like to have your feet rubbed and nibbled on? Do you like to wear a certain kind of lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear? Do you like candles all around your bedroom? Do you like certain sexual activities or positions? You have been married for 27 years so I am sure you have an idea of what you like. If not, now is the time to experiment with different things so you can discover what you like.

My suggestion to you is that you get your husband a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, like the CB3000. Get him the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device because you know that this will motivate him and excite him and we want him excited so he will be energized as he serves you in the bedroom. Have him shave his private area and have him put on the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device himself (this removes the pressure from you). Have him install the device each time prior to a bedroom session. Then tell him what you want him to do to please you. He is to stay totally focused on your needs. His are not important so don’t fret over his pleasure during this time. You are to focus on what you want. I realize this is a new attitude and it will take time but the more you do it, it will eventually become second nature.