Q&A Forum - January 2016

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You are accustomed to a man’s world where men are in charge. But deep down there is that desire within that wonders what it would be like to submit to a woman. Your challenge is to let go of the patriarchal ways and to allow your wife to teach you a better way. She doesn’t know where this is headed and she is probably just as unsure as you are. But she wants to follow her heart and her desires. She wants to explore her dominant side and in order for her to grow, her nature must feed off of your submission. You have the chance to give her the most precious of gifts. You have the opportunity to give her your heart, your will, your independence and your male pride. It takes trust and I can guarantee you that she will make mistakes, but the rewards are worth it. Your wife is worth it and you both may discover a life and a marriage that exceeds your wildest expectations. I do wish you both the very best.

Q. Dear Elise, my boyfriend introduced me to your site a few months ago while explaining to me his desire to be submissive顺从 — willing to obey. I like to think that I am open minded, and I was very flattered that he could share his desires with me. We looked at your site together, and did the psychoanalysis sessions. Through this, and through some other pictures and videos that he showed me, I got an understanding of what he wants and explained to him which things I was initially OK with and which things it might take me longer to try (if ever).