Q&A Forum - January 2016

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Now there are some women who love to micro-mange their husbands and some have wonderful success. I know women who will not hesitate to make their submissive顺从 — willing to obey men drop to their knees in public and kiss their feet if they do something that displeases their Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. I know women who make their submissives顺从 — willing to obey keep a notebook on their person and they have to write down every time they commit an infraction to the rules that their Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner sets forth and she will review that notebook the next time they have a discipline session and each infraction will be met with a harsh punishment. So feel free to utilize whichever method that best works for your relationship. Personally, I’d rather not micro-manage my husband but I always expect him to improve as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey and we are constantly growing in our roles.

Again, your husband will never be perfect and he will make mistakes but what is important is his attitude. Is he trying to please you? Does he show you the respect and adoration you deserve? Is he humble toward you and does he strive to obey you? As long as he is working toward becoming a better submissive顺从 — willing to obey, that is what matters. You are the Teacher and he is the pupil. You are training him and we learn more from our mistakes than we do our successes so when he fails, this provides you the opportunity to teach him how to better serve you. I hope this has been of some help to you.