Q&A Forum - January 2019

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Anyway I wanted to write to you in the hope that your book helps things. I am so tempted to give the book to her now but I am waiting for the timing to be right.

A. I’m glad you enjoyed my book and you’re correct about the importance of timing. It sounds like your wife is slowly warming up to the idea of dominating you in the bedroom. Therefore, there is no rush in giving her my book. Instead, first work on those areas that you can control. What did you learn from my book? Are you dedicated to serving her and seducing her dominant nature through your servitude?

Be careful not to get the cart before the horse. Your wife has shown she is open-minded by agreeing to wear the boots and using the crop a little on you in the bedroom. The challenge for you is not to become over anxious. I realize this can be difficult but patience is the name of the game when introducing this lifestyle to a beginner. That is why your focus needs to be on your wife and on you meeting her needs. As she becomes more open and expresses a willingness to learn more about female domination, then you can give her my book. But seeing how she reacted negatively to “The Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner Manual” you need to proceed with caution lest you hinder her growth as a dominant woman. Again, focus on your submissive顺从 — willing to obey attitude and work on those things that you can control. I do wish you all the best.