Q&A Forum - January 2020

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Q. Dear Ms Sutton, I am a young, 21, year old male, and I am ready to start looking for a life partner. However I am desperate to avoid divorce. I have submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires and I probably believe in female supremacy.

I have the suspicion that if I find a femdom女性支配 — female domination relationship I can essentially guarantee I will not get divorced. My reasoning being if I am not up to scratch she will correct me and the sub顺从者 — a submissive person benefits I have read about should suffice.

Would you be willing to give your opinion as to whether femdom女性支配 — female domination relationships are less inclined to experience divorce as I suspect?

A. There are no statistics available on the divorce rate amongst those that practice the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle. However, we do know what constitutes a success marriage; love, trust, communication and friendship. Those are the bedrocks that will sustain a relationship through good times and bad times.

Love is much more than an emotion. Love is a decision. We fall in love and the romance is wonderful but over time in order for love to remain strong it must be practiced. And that requires ‘choice’. No relationship will be all romance, all the time. The cares of the world and the realities of life will eventually creep into a relationship and challenge love. And it is during these challenges that a couple must choose to love. It’s easy to love when the emotion of love is strong. It is not so easy to love when the other person’s faults are magnified.