Q&A Forum - January 2003

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Q. As a man, I would first like to thank you for the information I have read on your site. I have found it very comforting to know that I'm not some sort of pervert. After reading much of your site I now believe I can at least focus on my submissiveness. For years I was lead to believe there was something wrong with the way I was thinking.

I'm very much in Love with my wife of now 14 years, and though we had dabbed a little in the bedroom with role playing etc. I've never been satisfied with just that. I have on many occasions performed orally on her & have gotten her comfortable with denying me any pleasure in return. I don't know if I'm at your level, or some of your readers level. You see, most of the time my wife does want me inside her after I bring her to orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. I started this by telling her one evening that she was tired that I wanted to do this just for her. My goal now is to take this to another level. I do admit that the idea of cuckolding does excite me. I also believe that the brain is the strongest sex tool we can enhance. Thus, I say the "Idea" of cuckolding excites me. I'm not stupid though, I am married to a very attractive woman. And I know that there are plenty of opportunities for her. In fact, I've in the past purchased condoms for her to keep in her purse, and have asked her, please do not fall in Love with anyone just have unemotional sex. Which, she tells me she can not do.