Q&A Forum - January 2003

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Staying at home, smoking and dreaming about dominant women is no way to find one. A dominant woman is not going to jump off of your computer screen and make you her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. Get out there and experience life. Twenty-eight is young. Make yourself presentable. Dress sharp, stop smoking, and be a gentleman to all women. Focus more on others (especially women) and less on yourself. Give and it shall be given back to you. It sounds like you are a captive to your own world. Get out there and meet people. Experience life and you will find a woman. If you stay home and dream about it, then life will pass you by.

Q. I love your website. I was directed to it by some friends of mine, a husband and wife. It has been very helpful, I am trying to be the best Dom I can. You really know your stuff...sometimes I feel like an explorer in a dark cave without a flashlight.

Our relationship has been a complicated one, I won't bore you with the details. For the first time since we broke up there seems to be clarity. He wants to be dominated, and I want to explore my dominant characteristics. Too bad we didn't figure this out while we were dating. I am for the most part new to being a Dom, but I am taking to it naturally. Bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained has always been an area of interest for me, I don't remember when I first realized this...but it was when I was young, I know I was still a virgin when I discovered my curiosity.