Q&A Forum - January 2003

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As far as verbal humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose goes, just be yourself and experiment with it. Perhaps you will be better at humiliating him by teasing him, rather than being a Bitch. Some women tease their men about having a small penis阴茎 — the male sex organ is a playful and sexy way. Other women do it in a loud, bitchy way. Find what works best for you and just relax and have fun with it.

Some of the best Dominant women I have know never raise their voices. They dominate men with their sexuality and their dominant aura. They talk in seductive whispers and dominate with their seductive stares and their dominant body language. Domination does not always have to be brazen and forceful. It can also be mysterious and sensual. Either approach can touch a man's submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. Experiment and find out what works best on your man and what you are most comfortable doing. And above all, have fun.

Q. Elise, My husband came to me years into our marriage with this need for domination - I do not understand and have tried to explore the physical aspect with my husband. It was not successful and became very difficult for me.