Q&A Forum - January 2007

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The reason I do not believe in the correlation between pain and subspace is because different D&S activities will transport a man to the “submissive顺从 — willing to obey zone”, and most of these activities do not involve physical pain. A man need not be a masochist to enter subspace. Your situation proves my point. You enter into a peaceful, tranquil, hypnotic state of being when you are orally servicing your wife. You become lost in her.

Some men have the same sensation when they are worshipping a woman’s boots, other men enter subspace when they are being Queened, other men experience this when they are being humiliated by a woman within a sexual setting. Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play, discipline sessions, and worshipping the female body will transport certain men to subspace. So what do these activities have in common? The mental stimulation of a man surrendering his will over to the woman. The D&S activity is what triggers the mental stimulation and it is the mental stimulation that transports the man to subspace.