Q&A Forum - July 2012

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Our relationship is in fact much better overall now that we have the defined roles for her superiority and my subservience. She even recently told me that she finds my penis阴茎 — the male sex organ inadequate (5 in) and I do not provide her the pleasure that she desires and that at some point she may desire to take a lover. My question, as she grows more confident in her role I seem to be having more and more difficulty letting go as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey yet I crave these needs on a constant daily basis.

I would appreciate any assistance or advice you can provide. I sincerely wish to serve my superior wife in the best possible way to please her. I seem to be caught in a paradox.

A. It is natural to have internal struggles, as that is the result of change. But as long as you are committed to your decision to submit to your wife and communicate to her your needs and feelings, you will find fulfillment and happiness in this lifestyle as you surrender to her will. That does not mean that you will agree with her decisions all the time or that every decision she makes will make you happy in the short term. But as long as the two of you communicate and as long as you trust her and support her, you will find fulfillment as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey husband.