Q&A Forum - July 2012

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A D&S relationship takes even more trust than a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationship because of the dynamics involved. But the payoffs are higher because of that bond of trust. If you want to be dominated by a stranger, then go see Professional Doms where you can have a session but return to your life afterwards. If you want a personal relationship with a Dom, you need to make sure that she is a woman you trust and the kind of woman to whom you want to submit.

Your second question was about social isolation and the societal expectations of the male role. While it does exist, it is rare for a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male to be isolated. An example would be Darren in my book "female Domination" where his wife made him into her 24/7全天 — all day and every day slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience and keeps him isolated from the outside world the majority of the time and she enjoys a social life separate from him. This was an agreed upon lifestyle and it is the exception and not the rule. Not many men could live such a life but Darren claims he is happy and fulfilled by such an arrangement.

Most FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples keep their lifestyle private and still enjoy an active social life that is separate from their FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle (although the FemDom女性支配 — female domination philosophy will influence their vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink relationships). Vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink friends and associates should notice that the man treats the woman with respect and adoration and they may even notice how the man defers decisions to the female, but such public displays are a positive example to society.