Q&A Forum - July 2012

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Being in charge does not mean one must do everything and being in charge does not mean one does not seek input from others. In a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage, I believe the woman must be in charge of the finances as money is power. The finances are where the rubber meets the road. It is easy for a man to say he believes in Female Supremacy when the activities are restricted to the bedroom but it is in the area of finances when you see whether a man is really serious about submitting to female authority.

However, as is the case in your marriage, some men are more gifted when it comes to managing money. We all possess gifts and talents and some husbands are better equipped at balancing the checkbook, paying the bills and tending to the day to day financial obligations. Some women may view such tasks as tedious and not the best use of a woman’s valuable time. In these instances, a wife may decide to delegate this responsibility to the husband. But that does not mean the husband is in charge of the finances. The wife must be the decision maker and the husband should seek and gain permission from the wife for financial purchases, investments, etc.