Q&A Forum - July 2012

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Q. I can't get over what has happened to my wife and my marriage since we discovered your site. My wife struggled with a low self-image. She has always struggled with her self-esteem and being overweight and losing the job that she loved two years ago didn't help. She had a domineering father and her first husband was abusive. Needless to say, her opinion of men was not the best and they intimidated her.

I guess you could call me a typical male with the exception that I have always respected women. But I am lazy and can be self-centered. I expected my wife to do all the housework and I viewed myself as the head of our marriage. Yet I have also had submissive顺从 — willing to obey fantasies my entire life. FemDom女性支配 — female domination has interested me since I was a teenager but my personality seemed to be a contradiction because I can be bossy and hardheaded.

I found your site and it was like a cork was removed from my submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. It became very strong and all I could think about was being dominated by a woman. I visited a Pro Dom and she was great and she encouraged me to heed your advice about introducing this lifestyle to my wife. Between her advice and your advice, I began to serve my wife and finally garnered enough courage to confess to her my desire to submit to her.