Q&A Forum - July 2007 (The best of Elise series)

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There are also women who demand their husbands wear one because it brings the woman mental pleasure and extra sexual arousal due to that mental stimulation. Some women do become excited about the idea they have their hubby locked up and that he is at her mercy sexually. There is that extra assurance that she knows he is not disobeying her when she is not around. Thus she is dominating him sexually even when she is not there.

Lots of couples are like you and your lovely wife and go on the honor system. To a man who has self-control and who is dedicated to his Queen to the point that he would never yield to a moment of weakness or temptation, there is no need for the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device. His word is his bond and he obeys his Queen's decrees without question. That is what is expected out of him. I would venture to say that most FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples go on the honor system at least some of the time. It is not always feasible for a man to wear a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device 24/7全天 — all day and every day due to his career, their lifestyle (a.k.a. kids) or even a health condition. But even these couples might incorporate the occasional use of a chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device to add extra flavor to their FemDom女性支配 — female domination. In these cases the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device is not a necessity but rather a D&S toy to add fun and excitement.