Q&A Forum - July 2013

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Again, few people bother to investigate why men desire to be disciplined by a woman. They only look at the exterior of a woman who whips a man and make the assumption that this is abuse or a mean thing to do. When done with love, it can be a very healthy activity as well as a very intimate and bonding experience between an adult woman and an adult man.

Thirdly, you asked about humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. I think you have a fairly good grip on this from reading my other posts on this subject. It is about the male ego and male pride and not about attacking the self-worth of another person. You said that you believe we are to build one another up and not tear one another down. That is exactly what humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play is all about. However, you cannot build upon a faulty foundation. If you want to build a new home but on the land you own there exist a blighted property, you must first tear down the old foundation before you can construct a new one.