Q&A Forum - June 2011 (Best of Elise)

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To answer the second part of your question, Yes, there are women who will do exactly what you suggest if they want to punish their husbands for a certain infraction but they do not want him to enjoy it. If a man is really into being whipped and he goes into subspace easily from this FemDom女性支配 — female domination activity, the Female Disciplinarian might decide that in order for the session to be a real punishment, she will require that he masturbate prior to the session, which will remove most if not all the erotic elements for him (although it might heighten the erotic elements for her if she becomes aroused at the thought that her submissive顺从 — willing to obey is suffering more than usual from her discipline).

Nevertheless, I believe if you want the D&S energy and the sexual passion to be present during a Discipline session, it is best if the man is in an aroused state. The longer he has been denied sexual release, the more discipline he can take, and the more discipline he can take, the more D&S energy can be exchanged during the session. But if your purpose is not to experience that passion, and your purpose is simply to punish him and you want it to be painful for him, in that case having him orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax prior to the session would set the stage for a more severe punishment session. Thanks for the question and best wishes.