Q&A Forum - June 2012

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Staying at home, smoking and fantasizing about dominant women is no way to find one. A dominant woman is not going to jump off of your computer screen and make you her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience. Get out there and experience life. Twenty-eight is young. Make yourself presentable. Dress sharp, stop smoking, and be a humble gentleman to all women. Focus more on others (especially women) and less on yourself. It sounds like you are a captive to your own world. So get out there and meet people. Experience life and you very well may find a woman whom you can compliment and support as she pursues her life goals. If you stay home and dream about it, then life will pass you by.

Q. My question to you stems from a few things you said in your response to the inquiry concerning how women display sadist tendencies. My sister-in law is trying to get me to be more dominant with my husband. You talked about, "Women use their intellect to get inside of the man's head to torment him." You also said, "I must admit that I gain a lot more satisfaction in dominating a man using my mind than a whip. To me, the whip is merely a prop. What I am saying and how I am getting inside of a man's head during a scene of corporal punishment is far more important than the actual physical act. Yes, I enjoy being physical because I get to exercise my aggressiveness but my real enjoyment comes from the mind games and the control I get from the mental domination."